I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act. I am in my mid-forties and I have been online dating off and on for about 2 ½ years and dating in general for 4 years. Only a tiny percent of relationships with 10-year age gaps turn into marriage, so the best way to approach dating younger men is with an open mind and realistic expectations.
Whether you’re seeking a casual relationship or a long-term commitment, the older woman/younger man dynamic offers a distinct set of benefits. However, don’t let the stigma of being a ‘cougar’ deter you from finding a new love connection.
You must have a thick skin because it goes against society’s norms and expectations. That said, there are some main things to keep in mind when dating someone younger.
But the question remains: what do younger guys want with women in their 40s? Does an age difference matter? If so, how much of an age gap is acceptable before there’s a huge generation and culture gap?įirst off, there’s no set formula for dating younger men. They’re cute, energetic and do not carry the same baggage as middle-aged men. If you’re an older, wiser, and a more mature woman.
